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We have been a part of our last church for a little over a year and, now, once again find ourselves without a home church. I guess people might consider us church hoppers and that has a very negative connation to it. But, sadly, maybe the truth. But we are not hopping churches because we don't like the music, nor the sermon, nor the people, that we aren't comfortable enough, etc. We have simply been looking for Truth, a church that lives by the Word of God and not by man's way. So, people may not look at us right, but we are okay with that. It has caused us to rethink church and what we really want. Are we looking for a church we can get something out of or are we looking at the church as something we are? For the church is really only the believers that are in the church and if we diss the church we are in actuality dissing ourselves. The church in America, admittedly has many problems but are we being a part of solution or adding to the problems? Now, we won't support a "church" that actually goes against the Word of God or one whose pastor is malaligned but we certainly can be a part of a body that is strving to follow God's Word and be a part to support, encourage, sharpen iron and be witnesses to God's grace, yes, even in the church. We have only been without for a couple of weeks, but there is a void in our lives without it. We had very good fellowship at our last church and our small group was very special and close. I really don't want to be labeled a "church hopper", I really do want to settle down but we are bound to follow God's leading and He was very instrumental in leading us out of this church. My hubby actually went on a 40 day fast in prayer over our church situation, stayed out of it, and things just happened to show very clearly this is not where God wants us to be. I feel in my very spirit that He has great and exciting plans for us and that this lack of fellowship is only temporary. So I wait on Him, for His direction and practice being content in all situations. It is a lesson He has clearly been trying to teach me, contentment no matter what is going on around me. I know that one day I will be in true fellowhip with fellow believers free of the corruption that surrounds us, in heaven, and that makes this journey all the more bearable. I feel sometimes like I am just a square peg trying to be forced in a round hole. God says the road is narrow and I want to follow that narrow hole, I want His Truth and do not want the lies, deception and foolishness of man. I don't want to be out of church, I want to find that square hole, that is permeated with Truth, grace, love, mercy and Him! We shall see where He takes us on this journey, meanwhile I'll enjoy the fellowship here and with my Lord. I know He has a place for me. Blessings! Andrea



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This is a tough question to answer because the Spirit in us always points to an image of the church with Jesus. But what we see in the spirit and what it will be in the physical can often look different. So here is the question. Do you feel there is a church (the Sunday thing) that you are to fit into or do you feel there are believers that you can gather with to be the church (even if its very different than the Sunday thing)?

  Posted 12/08/2007 07:57pm
Author: psalmthirtyseven

i can remember last year when i was in a church and i wasn't growing in my walk with god.it's only in pray that god moved me to where he wanted me to be. it's all about him. keep himfirst and let god lead you where you are most effective for the kingdom and his name shall get the glory

  Posted 12/09/2007 03:48pm
Author: iraqivetsgtret

My wife and I left a church we had been attending for 7 years a few months back over changes in doctrine. We tried different churches for a while but now we've started hosting a small group in our home every friday(when we're not in Mexico). Even though we are established ministers, other believers think something is wrong since we're not in an established church. Just relax and enjoy life, God's gotta plan.
Rivermandan

  Posted 12/09/2007 10:02pm
Author: rivermandan

I agree with above comment. Why not just start a "fellowship" on a particular evening; cook some food, and afterward let everyone talk about what God is doing for and with them. You know what? that is church. Church is not a building but the body of Christ. Whenever two or more are gathered in His name, He is there, thus church is there too. I am not the Lord, thankfully, but it sure appears He is calling you to relax from the structured church idea for a season and simply enjoy fellowship with other beleivers, whomever they might be.
I realize there are hundreds of "church planting" movements, but in reality; if you want to a church you won't run into problems as you have in, you need to think about planting the seeds and just starting a fellowship of your own. There are wonderful home church movements out there which have practical info on how to have a home fellowship. Amazingly, it usually just consists of people sitting around talking about the Lord and praying together.
Thank you for your heart felt honesty in all you write. It is truly a blessing!

  Posted 12/10/2007 11:07am
Author: blessings2you

That is exactly where God has been leading us, not only to talk about what God has been doing in our lives but also to study His Word. We attended something similar for a year or two on Friday nights, it was the closest thing to church we have had in a long time, and it was not just for believers but for non-Christians as well. It was the fellow who led this group that brought us to this new church, he gave that up to devote his time to this new church then, sadly we both found out that it was not what we thought it would be. Hubby and I have been waiting for him to get something else started but it could be that God is saying that we need to do it. We shall keep it in prayer and see what God wants us to do. Thanks for thw words of encouragement and confirmation of the direction God is leading us. This site has truly been a blessing to me and my family! Thanks! Blessings! Andres

  Posted 12/11/2007 04:26am
Author: allforhim

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