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How Does God Our Father Answer Our Prayers

Picture a man in a small rowboat on a pond doing some fishing. Suddenly he notices his feet are wet because of water leaking into the boat from a hole on the floor. With nothing to plug the hole with he falls on his knees and asks God to save him. So far, this is an easy situation to envision, but what comes next may be a little more difficult to take.

As he prays harder and harder for God to save him, the boat fills more and more with water to the point it starts to sink. The more it sinks the harder and louder he prays. Finally the boat is totally filled with water and he is left to either drown or swim to shore. He musters all his strength and swims the 100 yards to shore, exhausted and terribly mad at God for not answering his prayer.

The questions are: Does the man have a legitimate right to be angry at God for not answering his prayer? Should the man rejoice in making it to shore safely or be upset because he is all wet and his boat sits at the bottom of the lake?

To begin with, did not the man's prayer get answered? He did not drown and there was no lasting damage done to his body or soul other than the humiliation of losing his boat. To answer the second question first; he should be rejoicing because he did not perish. In so answering the second question, the first one is also answered.

Far too many times we yell to God for help in perilous situations but in our yelling we are demanding He help us the way we want Him to. Obviously in this story the man wanted God to drop a plug down from heaven to stop the leak so he could keep on fishing. Otherwise, logic would dictate rowing the boat to shore, dumping the water out, finding a plug and going back out to fish some more. But, that would involve self-sacrifice of time and would involve work. How much easier it is to simply wave the magic wand and let God do everything.

Unfortunately this is how many believers view prayer. They get into a difficult situation and instead of simply looking for the solution and doing it, they pray and expect God to do everything for them. I am sorry to tell you this is not how it works. Very few of us had parents who would do everything for us, and God is our Father and He won't either.

WHAT GOD IS NOT

Almighty God, the creator of the heavens and earth is not a vending machine. We do not take our quarters (representing prayers) and deposit them with Him and push a button for a new pair of shoes, rent money or a new boyfriend or girlfriend. God has cattle on a thousand hills and has no shortage of resources to supply our genuine needs; but He is not a vending machine ready to pop out "treats" any time we get hungry.

God is not a waiter at a fine restaurant. We do not sit around looking over menus and then snap our fingers to bring God running to take our order. It is not our place to demand His top prime rib along with some of His finest wine. Just because He has all those cattle and just because He can turn water into wine doesn't mean we can demand He share them with us because it is Saturday night and we are all dressed up.

God is not our servant. We do not sit around in pampered luxury ringing our little bell for our God to come running to serve us. "I am tired today, so please God, will you plug the hole in the boat so I can keep fishing" is not the way God has this all set up to work. He is not our hired hand whose job it is to run all over the earth doing our dirty work or doing everything to make our life the epitome of earthly bliss and comfort.

WHAT GOD IS

Our God stands ready, willing and able to fight for His children. If the enemy tries to harm or hurt us and we call out to our Father for help; He will dispatch angels and do everything needed to defend us.

Our God is a God of comfort and love who is always there to bind up our wounds and heal our broken hearts. Our God is a God of peace who calms the storms in our hearts and bathes us with the balm of Gilead when we get wounded.

Our God is always there to provide for His children. Our God is our Heavenly Father who is gracious, merciful and tender with us. He is also a loving Father willing to chastise us when wrong and correct us so we don't hurt ourselves.

Our God is able to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. He will gladly provide manna in the wilderness and even quail. Whether He offers the fatted calf just because we would like it is not guaranteed, but He will meet His children's needs.

CONCLUSION

God expects us to use the brain He blessed us with. In other words He expects us to think something through and exhaust all avenues before taking a situation to Him. If we can take care of things ourselves, He expects us to do so. If we can't, He stands ready and able to help. Whether that help will be to handle the situation or tell us how to ourselves is His prerogative.

I once heard a variation of the original story presented here where after the man prayed, a giant oar dropped down into the boat. It was God's way of saying "here is how you will be saved". In other words, God provided the means but left it up to the person to do the work. If a person needs $100 and prays for God to meet the need; God can either drop a hundred dollar bill down from heaven or send a telegram saying go to such and such a place and offer to mow the grass.

If we will stop treating God as our personal waiter/vending machine/servant and start approaching Him as our loving and all wise Father we will understand how He deals with our needs. If we will quit looking at prayer to God as a kid in a candy store and think of it more as going to your dad and asking for the keys to the family car; then we will begin to understand how He wants us to approach Him.

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Posted: May 30 2008 04:12:10am by blessings2you Pledge Partner
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Author: savedbyegrace
Posted May 30 2008 04:28:41am
  Another home run blog, B2Y!

Reminds me of that old joke about the man on the roof of his house as the floodwaters rise. A guy in a rowboat comes by and says, jump in, I'll take you to safety. And the man on the roof replies, no thank you! God will rescue me.

Then a motor boat comes by, same thing. Then a helicopter comes by, the man still refuses, saying God will rescue him.

He drowns. When he gets to heaven he says, God, I had faith you would save me! Why didn't you rescue me? And God replies, I sent two boats and a helicopter! What were you waiting for?

Another point is that we often think "answered prayer" means yes, just the way we asked! But no is an answer to prayer. Wait, is also an answer to prayer.

Our God stands ready, willing and able to fight for His children. If the enemy tries to harm or hurt us and we call out to our Father for help; He will dispatch angels and do everything needed to defend us.


You might want to expand on that point just a bit. I understand what you're saying, but I know a lot of crime victims have called out to the Father too, and the crime is not stopped.

Thanks for a great post.
Gracie

Author: allforhim
Posted May 30 2008 04:38:19am
  We must go to God with not my will be done, but Your will be done. He is a good and faithful provider and He ALWAYS answers our prayers, even when is doesn't appear to be so. I, for one, used to approach God as that big genie in the sky, but He had to show me very painfully, that is not what He is.

And then when I was praying so fervently about the miscarriage I ended up in the hospital hemorrhaging, that was not my idea of what I wanted, I wanted to miscarry at home and have all go well. But I also was fervently seeking His will for the situation. But do I trust Him, even when things go not according to my liking? Yes, and He faithfully provided for me in the hospital and gave me His comfort and care, He knew I needed to go through what I did so He could reach me and show me an area that I was lacking in faith of Him. Through that experience He showed me plain as day that I was putting my health in my own hands, thinking I was in control and getting security from that instead of trusting Him, and accepting that He is the giver and taker of life. All I do for my health is meaningless if He calls me home. I had to get that through my thick head! So after the long story, yes, God is so much wiser, bigger and greater than we are, but He loves us anyway! We can always trust Him, but cannot expect He will give us every whim and desire we may have, but will always do what is the very best for His children. I do think we can bring ALL things to the throne and be confident that even when it is something we can take care of ourselves, He will be faithful to show that to us. Thanks for another thought provoking blog. Blessings! Andrea

Author: tchable Pledge Partner
Posted May 30 2008 05:48:23am
  We do serve a Loving and Merciful God who works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. God always answers our prayers. Many times the answer is not what we looking for but all the same answered. Our heavenly Father answers in a way which is always best for us in fulfilling His purpose in our lives which is always the perfect answer whether we recognize it or not. Many times He provides the means and requires us to put forth the effort . . . therefore we mature in Him.

Excellent post my brother.

May God bless you and your family in Jesus Name.

TchAble

Author: lyn71
Posted May 30 2008 09:19:45am
 
Unfortunately this is how many believers view prayer. They get into a difficult situation and instead of simply looking for the solution and doing it, they pray and expect God to do everything for them. I am sorry to tell you this is not how it works. Very few of us had parents who would do everything for us, and God is our Father and He won't either.


This is something I have thought about myself. There are many times when we people use "it must be God's will" as a copout. That statement might seem harsh, but that is exactly what it is. This happened, that happened, I'm this or that, simply because they do want God to everything, or they are seriously misguided and think they aren't 'supposed' to do anything, and just accept whatever happens as God's will. Good blog.

Author: kraftykatz Pledge Partner
Posted May 30 2008 10:50:21am
  Your story reminds me of a song I heard once, goes something like this;

Give me this I want that
bless me Lord today
make me healthy
make me wealthy and do it Lord today
and to this never ending list
add the things that I missed

Matthew 26:39


Christ prayed not His will but God's will.

Excellent blog as usually B2Y.

KraftyKatz
:coffee: drinking tea

Author: kreynolds Pledge Partner
Posted May 30 2008 09:42:31pm
  Over the years, I have seen God multiply food which should have lasted only a couple of days last for weeks until we finally got paid money we were owed. I have had money show up completely unexpectedly and had everything I needed to buy at the grocery store suddenly have a "price-cut" that day so my dollars stretched further than I could have ever imagined. However, I've also had God talk to me about my stewardship of what he has provided for me and his expectations that I take action to change my ways. I've had job opportunities suddenly open up and I've also had God give me the resources and wisdom to go after opportunities. I've been instantaneously healed and yet I have also had medicine and my immune system/body do exactly what God designed it to do. We truly are fearfully and wonderfully made and it is really wonderful to see the human body spring into action as it begins to heal itself.

I could go on and on. The point is, it really doesn't matter exactly how God chooses to answer our prayers. You're right. He is not a "vending machine" nor is he under any obligation to do things the way we think they should be done. God does not have to answer to us. We have to answer to him. What matters is we have a Father who always hears and responds us. We just need to learn to trust him even when we don't understand or even when we want things done differently.

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