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Single with a Mortgage

QUESTION

Dear Dr. Celeste,

I a have good government job but I absolutely hate it! I appreciate the steady check, the opportunity to learn new things, and meet some interesting people but my particular position has no real structure or purpose and my particular office is quite inefficient and very resistant to any suggestions that may help us be more effective in my opinion.

Just thinking about the job produces anxiety. After starting this job, I started having physical health symptoms that my doctor diagnosed as stress-related.

I've been applying for other government jobs for about a year but have not gotten any interviews or offers. I even tried to go back to the last position I was in but they never even called back.

I'm beginning to think God is telling me to quit relying on secure government jobs and follow my passions: writing, public speaking, spiritual direction, jewelry making, and entrepreneurship in general. But right now I have debt and bills. And the things I want to pursue take even more money than I already make or have.

I began the ambitious goal of paying off my revolving debt this year by first assessing how much I actually have and it's nothing out of control but still more than I have right now in my accounts. I am also reassessing my jewelry business and developing strategies to make it more effective.

In sum, I am stuck and don t know if I should just take a leap of faith.


RESPONSE

Dear Single with a Mortgage,

First things first, the word says in 2 Thessalonians 3:10b, "If a man will not work, he shall not eat." Unless you have clearly heard the voice of God and not simply the voice of your frustration DO NOT leave your "good government job". (Other reference: Proverbs 3:6)

There s something to be said about seeing a process all the way through to the end. God will often use our most frustrating circumstances to develop His character in us. Some years back I was in a similar situation. I had grown tired of my job and wanted out desperately, but God wouldn t move me. Like you I applied to others jobs to never receive a call back. Finally I prayed to God for the right attitude while I waited. With His help I stayed put without the frustration and before I knew it He opened a door for me to start my own private practice.


We forget that God is not in a rush. His word says that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day (2 Peter 3:8). So like I said not in a rush.

Fortunately, there are a several things that you can do while you wait for God to move you:

1. Pay down your debt: any business owner knows that one dramatically increases the odds of succeeding when one s personal debt is null or at a minimum.

2. Have an exit plan: Developing a solid business plan for the jewelry business might be a great place to start.

3. Learn what you need to learn now: Running is not the answer. What God wants to teach you will be learned where you are or at your next location. Some repeat the same cycle for many years attempting to avoid a valuable lesson or development of character. Case in point, the children of Israel wandered in the desert wilderness for 40 years. Did I mention that God is not in a rush?

4. Look for opportunities to minister right where you are: We often forget that ministry can occur right in our places of employment. There may be a person that God needs for you to touch before you leave.

It takes faith to stay in a situation that you feel is zapping the life out of you but if God has called you to this experience He will lead you out in His timing. The word says, Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me (Psalm 23:4). God never promised a life of but we can trust that He will bring us out.

Lastly, when God is ready to move you He will and you won t have any doubt that it was Him.

If you have a question you would like for me to answer please respond to this post or send me a direct message.

Praying God s good success in every area of your life,
Dr. Celeste

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Posted: May 02 2011 07:59:21am by drceleste
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Author: sjschafer
Posted May 02 2011 09:36:08am
  Hi,
I am in the same place you are, almost exactly. I have been thinking about quitting constantly to persue my artistic abilities. I have faith that I will succeed, I just want to make sure that I am hearing from God first.
But, I want to share something that I have learned with you. Not that I have it overcome it myself, by any means, but this truth I have learned.
If you want to truly hear from God about this (and this is another reason that I have been hesitating.. to make sure I am doing this completely), you must do your absolute best in your present job.
I have come to this conclusion. All governement jobs, mine included, are great in that they are a steady paycheck, and they have good benefits. Other than that, I don't care what anyone thinks, they do not pay a fraction of what the private sector is paying for comparable skills. I work for higher ed, and believe me, everyone here is either donating their time... dedicated to the philosophy of providing higher ed to students out of a sense of philanthropy... .can't find another job ... .or have no marketable skills.
However, I realize that I have spent the last few years griping and complaining about my job, and I have gotten absolutely no where. On the other hand, my husband who is 60, was recently contacted by a major corporation in connection with his abilities in the oil and gas field as a well control instructor. I had no faith that he would get that job, which had pay and benefits about 3 times the amount of compensation he was getting in his job at the time. I decided to join in prayer with him just because it meant so much to him. So, i adjusted my faith and started saying that through God, all things are possible, and that God knows where my husband is meant to work, etc. And lo and behold, he got the job.
Well, it just so happened that only a little time previous to this wonderful blessed promotion, Scott had made a committment to do the best job that he possibly could do for the company that he was working with. That, although he was concerned about not having enough money to retire, and no actual retirement program only a 401(k) with very little company input, he was doing his best at work and saying only good things about his job and company.
After his promotion, he told me some things about that previous job, such as that his foul mouthed co-workers sometimes made it almost unbearable for him to go to work there, etc. But, he never said any of that, only prayed for them.
We found out that this company was bought out by a larger corporation, and may not even keep the instructional division that he worked for. God really does have a plan for us... and it is for good and not evil.
So, now, I am trying to do the same thing. I am going to quit saying how much I hate this job.. I am going to quit complaining to him about it. I realize that this job is not my life, and it is NOT my source. God is my source. If I really feel that I am hearing from God to stop my job and write the book I have inside my heart, I KNOW that I will succeed, because my God is my Source. All around me, other people may be out of work, and out of gas, but my GOD is greater than the economy, my God is greater than any gas price war.
Just like God found a job for my 60 year old husband, who by the way, had been turned down by another major company because of his age, and ALSO, had even been given an interview with this same company about 2 years before, and was not hired... he can guide you and me to do what we were meant to do. Some of us were meant to do more creative things, I believe that... sitting at a desk and doing office work is not what I am called to do. But, I am going to get my heart and spirit right, and appreciate this job, do the best job that I can, and speak only good and edifying things about it, and then, watch for God to open the door to my real future.

Author: drceleste
Posted May 02 2011 09:56:50am
  Amen! I, too, was in a similar position about 5 years ago. I was working a state job and miserable. I tried to get other employment and was unsuccessful. Finally I yielded to the leading of the Holy Spirit and decided to be content and learn what I needed to learn right there. When my mind changed my season changed. Before I knew it I was off to start a private practice. God is faithful and His plan is best.

Thanks for your comment!

Author: eddieisme
Posted May 02 2011 11:57:28am
  Hi everyone,

In the last several days I have had the opportunity to sit down with several very successful individuals who have given me their insight for why they have become successful, and also a little bit of their struggles before hand. They are not Christians, but none the less, are successful and have something inside them telling them to sit down and talk with me.
The first lady I spoke with started telling me that at her workplace there are individuals who love their job! They are always happy and enthusiastic about what they do. In fact, they don t even consider their job work, but rather a hobby. Then, she said, others are counting down the days until retirement. They are not happy to be at work, and every second is torturous.
The next day I sat down with a man who basically said the same thing. He said they have gold cuff links meaning, they have security in their job and great pay. So great, that there are way too many excuses that come up in their minds, to ever let them leave and move on to something that would be more fulfilling.
These people are telling me this because I am 22 years old and am trying to start my life. I am so scared that I will put myself into a position where I become handcuffed into something that isn t fulfilling. The advice both of these non-believers gave me was to find my passion (or what makes me motived to do something) and combine it with what I m good at. The young man (who s the president of a financial group and drives a Lexus) told me a story about a man he worked with when he first started working 10 years ago. This man had gold cuff links as well, but unlike everyone else, he refused to accept his sentence (working at the secure job that offered no fulfillment). So he left! He had to work on contracts continuously for several years and now he is beyond successful.
I truly believe that God has a very important plan for me that requires me to be so faithful, that I put everything on the line. I feel like this is what I m supposed to do, as I m sure you feel you are suppose to as well.
Perhaps one day you can come on here and write a blog about your leap of faith , and how you left your security, and risked everything to go do what God has called you to do. If you re wondering what that is, that s a whole other topic. And I m still trying to figure out what that is for me too.

Leah

Author: drceleste
Posted May 02 2011 12:10:14pm
  Hello Leah,

Thanks for your thoughtful comments. In the last year in a half I made a major leap of faith; I will write about that in the next few days. Thanks for making that suggestion and I would encourage anyone reading this post to do the same. I am so encouraged by others faith in a God who never fails.

Keep seeking God; He will reveal His glorious plan for your life. In the meantime enjoy the journey.

All the best,
Dr. Celeste
The Good Success Movement

Author: followhimfaithfully
Posted May 02 2011 11:59:05am
  My story is similar, but different.

I had been a stay at home mom for almost 10 years when my husband was stricken with a major medical crisis. (11 years later he has had numerous surgeries and illness and is currently disabled.) When it first happened I was offered a job as someone's administrative assistant. The gentleman was beginning a full time ministry. Over the next few years I saw the office grow and the ministry prosper and believed with all my heart that this was where God wanted me to be for the rest of my life. However, my eyes were opened as I saw a dramatic shift in the focus of our work. I began to get disillusioned and yet trusted that somehow things would right themselves. My heart was heavy for quite a while. Recently my boss announced he was relocating to a different state and "Voila!" I was out of a job. Position eliminated. That was a few months ago. And yet, I cannot believe that anything but good will come to me and my family.

I still believe with all my heart that He is going to place me into something even better. I just have not figured out what direction He is pointing me in. Yet I keep hearing Psalm 46:10 Be Still and Know that I am God.

Losing my job has been a gift. It has given me time to refocus, care for my family members and have that sabbatical I was praying for. Keep praying as He is sure to guide you as you attempt to figure out your next steps.

Author: drceleste
Posted May 02 2011 12:22:17pm
  I praise God for your continued faith in Him. The word reads, "If you faint in the day of adversity, Your strength is small." And of course our faith is not small because God is in us and has all power.

"Losing my job has been a gift..." I often speak of my experience with cancer as a gift too (I am a four survivor of breast cancer). Sometimes people don't understand that but cancer helped me to grow spiritually in ways that "easy living" would not allow. We don't always understand why God allows certain events but we do know that it all works together for our good.

Like the Spirit is telling you, Be still and know that He is God.

Please keep us posted on your progress,
Dr. Celeste
The Good Success Movement

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