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Once unbeliving Husband\Exhusband now saved wants to reunite

I married a man that I thought believed in God. After we were married I found out at our Easter family dinner that he did not believe to put it mildly. I was devastated! We were married for 6 years. I always felt I had to hide my beliefs and couldnt talk to him about any of it or come under his negative comments and ridicule. Last year my sisters and I began to pray asking Lord to make changes in my marriage. Last January after he returned from a job in AK he told me he was going back and the divorce began. Since he left me he continued to call. He told me he found someome while he was there. I was crushed! The calls kept coming from him. I wouldnt answer for a very long time. Then one night I picked up the phone with out looking at the ID and there he was. We talked off and on and I continued to carry on with my life. Just recently he told me what a mistake he had made and then began to ask about the sinners prayer. I shared with him how to ask the Lord for forgiveness and we talked at great lengths about the Lord. He said days later that he asked the Lord into his heart. He continues to refer to God in conversations. When I bring up the Bible he gets kind of negative. He doesnt appear to want to read the word. When I was a new Christain I didnt feel that way.
He wants to "fix what he broke". We are divorced. We dont have children together.
I dont know I should say no to him or not. I never wanted a divorce but the Lord allowed it for a reason right? It feels good to be free to worship and watch my programs. I play guitar at my sisters church now and have started a new life. Oh did I mention he was a pot smoker. It is great not to have that around. He is saying things that are pulling at my heart strings and I am very confused. I would love nothing more then for him to be telling the truth but he has lied before.
Any thoughts?
Thanks so much!

posted: 07/23/2008 01:24pm by grace1234 View: Backlinks, Permalink Total Views: 585 ShortURL: http://christianblog.com/31cd Category: Relationships	Print This Blog Entry
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Author: grace1234
Location: Zimmerman Minnesota USA
Gender: Female
Age: 47
Blog Entries: 1 (archive)
Blog Comments: 2

My Biography:

im not sure what goes into a bio. information about me. im a 45 year old divorced christain women. im a mom of a grown son (25) i have 2 cats that are great entertainment and good buddies. i am currently unemployed for abotu the first time in my life... view full biography

My Testimony:

i am a 45 years old christian mother of a wonderful boy or i should say man now. i was raised with church as something we did on sundays and camp in the summer. unfortunately it was a fear based belief and my greatest influences new enough of the word... view full testimony

Be very careful, I believe it would honor God if your marriage was restored, but unfortunately I have seen many non-christians play the Christian game to get what they want. Wait patiently on the Lord and watch to see if he is telling the truth or not. Time will evidence what is truly in his heart, do not be hasty and if seems sincere I would say biblical counseling should come before anything else and intimacy only after marriage. Just my 2 cents from what I have seen. I will pray for you. Your sister in Christ, Andrea

Posted 07/24/2008 04:29am
Author: allforhim

I think if you play it safe, you would do well. Pray that you focus you who attention to the Lord and how to please him then the Lord will direct the rest of things in this life. Do not, for any reason get your eyes off the Lord. When you husband-exhusband calls tell him you are in prayer and can't talk right now. If he's will to understand and take second place in your life, perhaps, perhaps it's worth a thought to talk a little. Don't let anyone get your thoughts off the Lord. Do not make any long time commitement except with the Lord. May you be blessed. Amen.

thbg

Posted 07/24/2008 07:43am
Author: tohimbeglory

Do not rush back into marriage with him. If his conversion is true, it will also be true in 6 months or a year. Pray, and if God leads you to, make your ex-husband 'court' you.
Give yourself time.

KraftyKatz
:coffee:

Posted 07/24/2008 09:49am
Author: kraftykatz

Thank you all so much for your comments. As it turns out the Lord showed me what my EX was up to today. It was painful to tell him I believe he is using me and I am better then this.
I prayed for change in my marrage and the Lord gave that to me. I just didnt expect him to take him out and now I know that is where he should stay. I learned today that he is seeing another women and wanted me to also. This is not right. I think I should change my phone numbers I dont know. In my despare last night the Lord gave me Proverbs chapter 3. Wow big eye opener.
You were all right to advise me to be careful.
Thanks again! I am so excited about this web site and possibly making some new friends in Christ - You have given me hope.
God Bless!

Posted 07/25/2008 07:43pm
Author: grace1234

The Lord will bless you in ways you just can not understand at this time. Your future well be awesome. Jesus protected you. Amen and to Him be the glory.

KraftyKatz
:coffee:

Posted 07/26/2008 06:37am
Author: kraftykatz

Keep your eyes on Jesus. You are now married to the King of Kings, and He will never let you down and take care of you in ALL things. Just trust and obey and remember to do Philippians 4:8. (A friend and I would always say, 4 eight it!) When we ask God, He will show us the truth about all things. Isn't it great that He cares about everything, little and big!?

Posted 08/09/2008 09:57pm
Author: trusting247

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