I'm not sure why I'm writing this. I guess to vent. I was married for 12 years. We have 3 boys. My wife went to alternative life style and is currently living with another woman. I divorced her in 2002 for this reason. I have residential custody of the boys. Not sure that really means anything. They stay with me most of the time. We have been doing very well. My mother helps me with the boys during the week. I could not have made it without my parents.
I really have a problem with divorce. I know that God hates divorce and I do too. When I meet other people who have been divorced, I'm very judgmental. Most of the divorce cases that I hear about are trivial. In my opinion, divorce should only be an option in extreme cases. Not just because you stopped loving him/her and find someone else. In my case, I'm the one that was left feeling unwanted. I just have to believe that all things work for good for those who are in Christ. My wife wanted us to live together for the boys sake. She would do her thing and I would do mine. I could not live like that and felt that if I did, it would show the boys that I accepted her life style.
I believe that Satan is destroying the Church by splitting families. Please Pray for my family and all those other Christian families who are contemplating divorce.
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